Western Springs, Illinois · In-person · In-home · Online
Strong body. Steady mind. One plan.
Personal training, youth performance, recovery therapy, and meditation — built on a mindset-first method that trains the body and the person carrying it.
Most programs train muscles and hope the mindset follows. Patience With A Plan works the other way: get the mind right, move with intention, recover like it matters — and the results hold.
01 — TRAIN
Strength with purpose
Progressive strength, conditioning, and functional movement — coached on form first, loaded with patience, and built to carry into real life.
02 — RECOVER
Rebuild to move better
Assisted stretch, cupping, acupressure, and Graston technique. Recovery isn't a rest day — it's half the program.
03 — BREATHE
A mind that holds
Breathwork and guided meditation that build focus, emotional regulation, and resilience — for athletes, students, and busy adults alike.
Kompassion
The philosophy underneath it all
Kompassion is compassion with accountability built in. You're met where you are — with dignity, never shame — and you're held to the standard you set for yourself. That's the culture in every session, for a 10-year-old athlete or a 70-year-old getting back on the floor.
Programs
Four ways in. Every one starts with a free consult and a plan written for the person in front of us — never a template.
Adults · 1-on-1 & Small Group
Adult Training
Personalized fitness for real life. Custom programs blend strength, conditioning, functional movement, and recovery — in the gym, in your home, or online — with the consistency coaching that makes it stick.
Custom plan built from an assessment of your body and goals
Strength, conditioning & functional movement
Form-first coaching, every rep
Session packages with punch-card tracking — you always know where you stand
Active Adults track: strength, balance, and mobility work for mature adults who want to protect their bones, prevent falls, and stay independent
Strength and conditioning that sets young athletes up for success on the field and beyond — building physical strength, confidence, focus, and the discipline that carries into school, home, and life.
Speed, agility, and age-appropriate strength
Technique-first coaching — no max loads, ever
Mindset and executive-function skills woven into every session
Small groups split by grade: 4th–6th and 7th–9th
Parent updates on progress and attendance
$65 / sessionMon–Thu 4–7 PMSunday 9–11 AM
From the Training Floor
Real sessions, real athletes
Straight from Coach Buddah's own sessions at The SET in Western Springs.
Coach Buddah — founder & head coachCoach Buddah with an adult client at The SETRecovery work — Coach Buddah at The SET
Recovery · Mobility · Pain Relief
Recovery Therapy
Recover smarter to move better. Hands-on sessions that reduce pain, restore mobility, and keep you training — or get you back to it.
Assisted stretching — including a hip & hamstring program for relief and injury prevention
Mobility and flexibility programming between sessions
By appointmentPairs with any training plan
Mind · Breathwork · Meditation
Mind & Meditation
The mental side of the plan. Guided meditation and breathwork for focus, stress relief, and emotional regulation — plus Mind & Body Wellness workshops for schools and organizations.
Guided meditation sessions for kids and adults
Breathwork for focus and a calm nervous system
Mind & Body Wellness workshops for schools, districts & teams
Executive-function-through-movement programming for students and staff
Individual & groupSchool partnerships
Weekly Schedule
Youth groups run on a set weekly rhythm. Adult training and recovery are booked by appointment — mornings through evenings, Monday to Saturday.
Mon & Wed
Grades 4–6
Foundations: movement quality, coordination, and confidence.
4:00 – 7:00 PM
Tue & Thu
Grades 7–9
Performance: speed, agility, and strength that transfers to sport.
4:00 – 7:00 PM
Sunday
All Grades Together
Both groups, one floor — games, conditioning, and mindset work.
9:00 – 11:00 AM
Book a Session
Pick your service, choose the times that work for you, and send the request. Coach Buddah confirms every time personally — nothing is final until you hear from him. Parents: the kids form is right up front.
Book Buddah to Speak
School assemblies, team sessions, and Mind & Body Wellness workshops run through the sign-up form — choose "School / Organization Workshop" and tell us about your group, your date, and your audience. Coach Buddah replies personally within one business day.
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Meet Coach Buddah
Khristopher "Buddah" Argue founded Patience With A Plan® on a simple belief: people don't fail plans — plans fail people. His coaching starts with the mind, builds the body with patience, and holds every client to the standard they set for themselves.
Buddah is a personal trainer, life coach, and recovery therapy practitioner (assisted stretch, cupping, acupressure, Graston) who also serves as a middle school wrestling coach and works with schools and districts on Mind & Body Wellness programming. Through KBuddahTraining, the youth performance division, he coaches grades 4–9 in Western Springs and beyond.
His clients range from first-time lifters to competitive young athletes to grandparents training to stay independent — and every one of them gets the same thing: a plan, and a coach who won't let them quit on it.
Personal TrainerLife CoachRecovery TherapyMiddle School Wrestling CoachPublic Speaker
Kompassion
My promise to every client
"I'll meet you where you are, I'll never shame you, and I'll hold you to the standard you set for yourself."
— Coach Buddah · Coach · Mentor · Speaker · Founder of Patience With A Plan®
Mindset With A Plan · Hosted by Coach Buddah
Growth Mindset in Athletics
Mental skills are trainable — just like strength and speed. Mindset With A Plan is Buddah's own conversation series on the mental side of performance, where he breaks down the growth-mindset framework behind elite performance with athletes and experts. First guest to be announced — the framework below is where every conversation starts.
Khristopher "Buddah" Argue — Host Coach · Mentor · Speaker — 3x All-State wrestler who transforms lives through fitness, mindset, and discipline, and teaches athletes to embrace the process and build consistency.
The five traits of a growth-minded athlete
01
Sees challenges as opportunities
Difficulty is feedback, not failure. Hard practices are chances to improve — not just survive — and pressure is a gym for the mindset.
02
Learns from mistakes — fast
Mistakes are data, not identity. Film becomes a coaching note instead of a verdict, and recovery after an error gets shorter every time.
03
Embraces feedback
Feedback is information, not a personal attack. Like a GPS, it reroutes you — it never stops you. Coachability is a competitive advantage.
04
Controls effort, attitude & response
You can't control outcomes, but you can control your behaviors. Effort stays non-negotiable — even on the off days.
05
Stays patient with the process
Growth takes time, reps, and repetition — and progress isn't linear. You don't harvest the day you plant. Trust the daily habits.
The result
Confidence that lasts
Confidence built on learning outlasts confidence built on outcomes — it holds up under pressure, at every level of the game.
Fixed vs. growth mindset
Fixed mindsetProtects the image
Avoids mistakes to protect confidence
Fears feedback and takes coaching personally
Focused on proving — looking good over getting better
Confidence rises and falls with results
Growth mindsetBuilds the athlete
Uses mistakes to build confidence
Seeks feedback and asks questions
Focused on learning — effort drives improvement
Trains the body and the mindset, like the elites do
Let's clear this up: growth mindset does NOT mean being soft. It does NOT mean accepting losing, and it does NOT ignore results. It DOES emphasize learning and effort — and it BUILDS long-term confidence and performance.
Put it to work this week
The Growth Mindset Mirror
How do I respond when I fail?
Do I seek feedback — or avoid it?
How quickly do I bounce back from a mistake?
Where can effort move me forward today?
Am I focused on learning, or on proving myself?
This Week — Pick 2
Reframe one mistake as a learning moment
Ask a coach or teammate for feedback
Push through one uncomfortable rep
Reflect on effort, not outcome
Encourage a teammate after a mistake
Who are you becoming as an athlete? "This season, I am becoming the athlete who ."
Decide it by your effort, your response to failure, and your willingness to learn.
"Mistakes are data, not identity."
Trait 02 — Learn fast
"Feedback reroutes you. It never stops you."
Trait 03 — Embrace feedback
"You don't harvest the day you plant."
Trait 05 — Trust the process
Growth-minded athletes build elite performance
Daily effort. Consistent learning.
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Built from the Growth Mindset framework in the show's black-and-crimson look, sized for Instagram. Screenshot or rebuild each layout in Canva, then copy the caption and post.
Launch Post — the show announcement
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Mindset With A Plan · Hosted by Coach Buddah
Growth-Minded Athletes Build Elite Performance
Daily effort. Consistent learning. First guest announced soon.
Patience With A Plan® · @kbuddahtraining
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It's official. Mindset With A Plan — my new conversation series on the mental side of performance — is coming.
Mental skills are trainable, just like strength and speed. We're breaking down the growth mindset behind elite performance with athletes and experts who live it.
First guest announced soon. Until then: daily effort, consistent learning.
Follow along → @kbuddahtraining
#GrowthMindset #MindsetWithAPlan #PatienceWithAPlan #YouthAthletes #KBuddahTraining
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Carousel — the five traits
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01Sees challenges as opportunities
02Learns from mistakes — fast
03Embraces feedback
04Controls effort, attitude & response
05Stays patient with the process
→Which one are you?
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SWIPE → The 5 traits of a growth-minded athlete.
01 — Challenges are opportunities, not threats.
02 — Mistakes are data, not identity.
03 — Feedback reroutes you. It never stops you.
04 — You control effort, attitude, and response. Nothing else.
05 — You don't harvest the day you plant. Stay patient.
This is the framework behind Mindset With A Plan, my new series on the mental side of performance. Which trait are you working on this week? Drop the number below.
Save this for your next hard practice.
#GrowthMindset #AthleteMindset #MindsetWithAPlan #KBuddahTraining #PatienceWithAPlan
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Mindset With A Plan
This season, I am becoming the athlete who
Decide it by your effort, your response to failure, and your willingness to learn. Type yours in the sticker.
@kbuddahtraining
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New series loading: Mindset With A Plan — the mental side of performance, hosted by Coach Buddah.
Start here: who are you becoming as an athlete?
Drop your answer in the question sticker. Best ones get shared this week.
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Quote Card — the weekly mantra
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Kompassion · The Method
"Mistakes are data, not identity."
Review it. Adjust. Move on. That's how fast learners are built.
Coach Buddah · Patience With A Plan®
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Mistakes are data, not identity.
The athletes who grow fastest aren't the ones who never mess up — they're the ones who review it, adjust, and move on the quickest. Film is a coaching note, not a verdict.
That's trait 02 from Mindset With A Plan — and it's coachable. We train it every session.
What did your last mistake teach you?
#MindsetMonday #GrowthMindset #MindsetWithAPlan #PatienceWithAPlan #KBuddahTraining
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Sign Up
Tell us what you're after. Every sign-up starts with a free consult — no pressure, no contract talk until the plan makes sense.
Send the formIt opens in your email app, addressed to us and ready to send — nothing is stored on this page.
We reply within one business dayWith consult times that fit your schedule.
Free consult & assessmentWe talk goals, assess movement, and map your plan together.
TrainPick your package, get your punch card, and start. Progress tracked every session.
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Questions
Where do sessions happen?
In person in Western Springs, IL and the surrounding area, in-home by arrangement, and online anywhere. Youth groups train Mon–Thu evenings and Sunday mornings.
How do packages and pricing work?
Adult sessions are $85 and youth sessions $65, with multi-session packages available for both. Every package is tracked on a punch card — sessions used and remaining are always visible, and we'll flag you before your last session, never after.
What ages can join youth training?
Grades 4–9, split into two groups: 4th–6th graders on Monday & Wednesday, 7th–9th graders on Tuesday & Thursday, with everyone together Sunday 9–11 AM. Coaching is technique-first with age-appropriate loads.
I've never trained before. Is this for me?
Yes — most clients start exactly there. Your plan is built from an assessment of where you are today, and Kompassion means you're coached hard without ever being shamed. Patience is in the name for a reason.
Can my school or team book a workshop?
Yes. The Mind & Body Wellness program brings movement, breathwork, and executive-function training to students and staff. Choose "School / Organization Workshop" in the sign-up form and tell us about your group.